Monday, August 24, 2009

Happier Times.....Me, Mom, and her brother, Vern


Mom, we need your sweet, understanding spirit with me today....Please help us throughout the day, WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO MUCH!


Saturday, August 22, 2009


What a friend she has in Jesus........

Thursday, August 20, 2009


I surely do miss Mom's emails which came 3 or 4 times every day! This is the time of year she really had fun with all the neat stuff our beloved Shauna taught us to use and made for us. With the feel of Autumn in the air, I'm sure Mom would already be pulling out those Halloween GIFs and Backgrounds. I used one of Shauna's signatures she made for you. It was so much fun and I looked forward to each and every email. I miss you more than I can say,
Rest well, Mother.

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

Lenis C. Nunley 10/5/1933 ~ 7/19/2008 Our sweet and beautiful wife, mother, sister, grandmother and friend passed away on a peaceful summer morning with her family by her side. She fought a brief but courageous battle with cancer and was reunited with her loved ones on July 19, 2008.Born October 5, 1933 in Joseph, UT to Antone Frank and Emily Jane Lott Christensen. She married the love of her life, Larry Nunley, June 16, 1950, and the marriage was later solemnized in the Salt Lake City Temple. They shared a very special love for each other. Mom loved the outdoors, scrapbooking and most importantly her family. Her outgoing spirit and witty personality will be greatly missed. She brought out the best in us and always made us laugh. She was a dedicated employee of Cottonwood Hospital for 15 years in the Surgical Unit and worked with Dr. Lieberman of Hemet, California for 10 years. Her greatest acheivement was being the best wife, mom, grandma and homemaker. As an active member of the LDS Church, she enjoyed her many callings. She is survived by her loving husband of 58 years; brother, Vern (Deloris) Christensen, Midvale, UT; her three daughters Lenis Jeanine (Mike) Rasmussen of West Jordan; Lorraine Moore of Ephraim; Janet Dyann Benjamin of Ephraim; her devoted grandchildren Jennifer, Kimberly, Margie, Stacey, Robert, Alison, Jesse, Lindsay, Windy, Mason and 21 great-grandchildren. Preceded in death by her parents, infant son Larry Jr., daughter Sharon Ann, five brothers and three sisters. Memorial Services will be held Wed., July 23, 2008 1 p.m. at Ephraim 5th Ward, 800 S. 100 E. Friends may call Tues. 6-8 p.m. and Wed. 12-12:45 p.m. Special thanks to Helen Parry and her caring staff at Intermountain Hospice for their extraordinary care and to her many friends and neighbors for their love, prayers and support. "Time cannot steal the treasure that we carry in our hearts."


Grandma's Guest Book Posts

August 17, 2009
Do not stand
At my urn and weep
I am not there,
I do not sleep.

I am a thousand
winds that blow.
I am the diamond
glints on snow.

I am the sunlight
on the ripened grain.
I am the gentle
Autumn's rain.

When you awaken
in the morning hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
of quiet birds in
circled flight.
I am the soft stars
that shine at night.

Do not stand
at my urn and cry.
I am not there.
I did not die.
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
West Jordan, Utah


August 03, 2009
"why are you crying?" he asked his Mom. "Because I'm a Mother" she told him, "I don't understand", he said. His mom just hugged him him close to her and said "You never will."
Later the little boy asked his father why Mother seemed to cry for no reason. "All mothers cry for no reason", was all his dad could say.
The little boy grew up and became a man, and still wondered why mothers cry. One night he had a dream. In his dream, he called God on the telephone. When God came to the phone
the man asked, "God, why do mothers cry so easily?' God answered him. "My son, you see, when I made mothers I knew they had to be special. I made their shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort. I gave them an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times come from their children and mates. I gave them a hardiness that allows them to keep going when everyone else has given up, and to take care of their families through sickness and fatigue without complaining. I gave them the sensitivity to love their children under all circumstances, even when the child has hurt them very badly. This same sensitivity helps them to make a child a child's boo-boo feel better and helps them share a teenager's anxieties and fears. I gave them a tear to shed. Its theirs, exclusively, to use whenever needed needed. IT'S THEIR ONLY WEAKNESS. ITS A TEAR FOR MANKIND.

We love you and miss you, Mom
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
West Jordan, Utah


August 01, 2009
Mom, things are a little weird this week without you. We all really need your love and guidance now more than than ever. I hope when it comes we will recoginze it. WE LOVE YOU MOM and miss you so much.
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
West Jordan, Utah


July 23, 2009
WHY didn't I drive down to see you more often? WHY didn't we take more trips together? WHY didn't I spoil you more with the scrapbook stuff you loved? WHY didn't we make it to Washington, DC? (we were SO close to our dream vacation, yet we never made it). WHY didn't I tell you more (not just in an email) that I loved you. WHY didn't I call you on the phone more often? WHY didn't I take you places now that you had moved up here so close to Salt Lake? WHY didn't I do more things to make you proud of me instead of shake your head at times? WHY didn't I buy you and Dad neat movies to watch and CD's to listen to all the time....that was so easy to do, yet I seldom did it. WHY didn't I have everything all ready to go like the food and stuff when you and Dad came for a visit like you did when we went to visit you? So I could sit back and enjoy your company instead of running around the entire time. WHY couldn't I be more like you? Most of all----WHY DID YOU HAVE TO LEAVE US??? WHY did we have to to say goodbye? None of use were ready for that. These WHYs will bother me for a very long time--maybe they will bother me for ALL TIME. I miss you so much, Mom. Life isn't the same without you.
(I guess the first anniversary of your funeral is not a good day for me). I love you, Mom
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
West Jordan, Utah


July 23, 2009
A year today since Mom's funeral. This is so hard to believe. We miss you!
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
West Jordan, Utah


July 20, 2009
Lenis,

I never got the chance to meet you, but you were like a surogot Mom to me. A year ago, I had all my trip plans made to fly to Utah, to finally get to meet you Mom, but you got sick & could have no visitors except "real" family. It was the Lords calling to take you home, so even though I never met you on earth, I will meet you in heaven one day. Loved You.
~
Gayle Lineberry,
Salem, Virginia


July 20, 2009
The first anniversary is now over...I think we all made it through okay. Rest well, Mother. We miss you so much.
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
West Jordan, Utah

July 19, 2009
Remember me when shadows fall,
When tears like rain are shed.
And though my name be on a wall,
Please do not think me dead.

Remember me at evening's hush,
At the sunrise softest dawn,
In the everyday of common rush,
I hunger to live on.

Remember me when moonlight bathes
The crystal starry skies,
See me in a tender gaze
Or in a child's eyes.

REMEMBER ME IN MEMORIES
OF THINGS WE USED TO SHARE.
THOUGH FLEETING ARE THOSE REVERIES,
JUST LOOK, FOR I AM THERE.

Remember me in all life's things
You see and hear and do.
Though we have felt death's parting sting,
My spirit lives in you.

Remember me as time flows on
Like rivers to the sea:
While from this earth I may be gone,
I live; Remember me.
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
West Jordan, Utah


July 19, 2009
Mom, I'm going to TRY to think of the happy memories today and not just the thought its been a year now since you've been gone. Over and over in your scrapbooks you put in this quote RECALL IT AS OFTEN AS YOU WISH--A HAPPY MEMORY NEVER WEARS OUT.
Recalling memories of our Mom and Grandma will never wear out---she was the very best. We miss you, Mom.
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
West Jordan, Utah


July 18, 2009
Dear Grandma,

I miss you so much. I can't believe it has already been one year, yet at the same time it seems like it has been even longer than that. I will forever remember the last night we spent with you, me and all my best friends for life. I am so grateful that we had the opportunity to take care of you that night and reminisce with your scrapbooks.

Life is so different now and will never be the same without you. I miss you and Grandpa coming to town and all of us getting together. We all had so much fun together and you and Grandpa were the center of it all. You drew all of us together. How I wish we could do that just one more time. I miss your laugh and I guess I miss everyone's laugh, for nothing is the same anymore. I think you would be proud of Grandpa and my mom, although they miss you so, they have tried their hardest to be brave for you. We all are trying and I hope we are making you proud. I am enjoying my job helping babies as sweet and tiny as Larry Jr. and I think of him and you often while I am work.

Grandma thank you for being such a special person in my life. You will always be in my heart, in everything I do. I love you with all my heart.

Love ALWAYS,
Stacey


July 18, 2009
Dear Grandma,

I miss you so much. I can't believe it has already been one year, yet at the same time it seems like it has been even longer than that. I will forever remember the last night we spent with you, me and all my best friends for life. I am so grateful that we had the opportunity to take care of you that night and reminisce with your scrapbooks.

Life is so different now and will never be the same without you. I miss you and Grandpa coming to town and all of us getting together. We all had so much fun together and you and Grandpa were the center of it all. You drew all of us together. How I wish we could do that just one more time. I miss your laugh and I guess I miss everyone's laugh, for nothing is the same anymore. I think you would be proud of Grandpa and my mom, although they miss you so, they have tried their hardest to be brave for you. We all are trying and I hope we are making you proud. I am enjoying my job helping babies as sweet and tiny as Larry Jr. and I think of him and you often while I am work.

Grandma thank you for being such a special person in my life. You will always be in my heart, in everything I do. I love you with all my heart.

Love ALWAYS,
Stacey
~
Stacey Jackson,
West Valley, Utah


July 16, 2009
We are coming up on the anniversary of when we lost you. I miss you so much, but yet I still can't believe you are gone and certainly cannot grasp that it has already been a year. I guess that is because you really truly are in our hearts and your wonderful spirit never really left us. We miss your smile, your laugh, your face. How I long to hug you and kiss your cheek! I love you so much Grammie and I will miss you until the day we meet again.
~
Kimberly Avalos,
Midvale, Utah


July 14, 2009
Dad and Janet, do you remember like I do that sinking feeling we had this week a year ago? Everything was going wrong. In the next few days we were going to lose Mom and there was nothing we could do about it. I want to thank Dad and Janet for the loving care they gave her. All I could do is stand by for moral support. I don't know why I was unable to help in her care, but I just couldn't do it. Thank goodness, THEY COULD! They cheerfully did everything which needed to be done for her (whether she like it or not. I'm sure all those needles pokes were getting tiresome!!) They made it possible for Mom to be here just a little bit longer and attend the family reunion we had the night before she passed away.
I hope others will please share their thoughts this week. Its going to be a tough one. I don't like being without my Mom and best friend.
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
Wesst Jordan, Utah


June 30, 2009
I came across some strawberry freezer jam that Mom had made and given to me on one of the trips here to Salt Lake. She brought so many little gifts that were so rare and so wonderful. What to do with the jam? Eat it or keep it frozen forever? I would love to eat it--but I think I will hold on to it. Mom--your little gifts were always so sweet and thoughtful. I know you and Dad could have used that jam very easily. But you always shared all you had. I miss your thoughtful little gifts and YOU so much.
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
West Jordan, Utah


June 12, 2009
Mom, I wish I could hear from you today. You brightened every day for me. I miss you so much. I love you even more.
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
West Jordan, Utah


June 04, 2009
Well, everyone who cherished Mom. The day has come. One year ago was the surgery that she would never wake up from. We had our moments of dread and fear....but still we held onto the idea that she would wake up--get her chemotherapy over with--and be well and happy again. That day didn't come. So, this day is like the day she left us for good. We were with her for a couple more months, but I guess she wasn't with us. I think she kinda wandered from this life into the next the whole time. And although she knew it would hurt us so. She wanted to move on to the next. She was not afraid to move on. Her testimony was strong. She KNEW where she was going.
My dearest friend, Brenda in Australia, sent me this poem to use. It was written a few years ago for her "Mum" who had also passed away from cancer. Thank you, Brenda. YOUR MUM AND OUR MOM & GRANDMA are so much alike!

"MOTHER"

We miss her so,
Loving her was so very dear.
She shared our joys and sorrows,
And helped us make our pathway clear.

Her needs in life were little,
Her wants so very few.
Her life she spent around us,
As each year her children grew.

We never thought she'd leave us;
That day seemed far away,
But life can treat us unkindly,
When comes the "parting of the ways".

Her love we'll hold forever,
Her memories are a treasure.
How thankful we must really be,
TO HAVE THE NICEST MOTHER!

We love you and miss you, Mom. But we know you are happy. Help us make it through this day.
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
West Jordan, Utah


June 03, 2009
Today, (a year ago) was the last chance I had to talk to my Mother. So much happened after her surgery the following day, I can't even recall if I spoke with her or not. Lorraine and I were just a couple mins late getting to the hospital before she went in for her operation. But still---we were so sure everything was going to be fine. After all--the doctors told us so. I don't know if I let her know I was confidant she was going to get better, or worried about what could and did happen. Whenever the last time I talked to her was--I hope I said the right things. I have no idea if I did or not. I hope I didn't belittle her situation when she needed comforting. We were all so SURE she would be fine.
Mom...I miss you so much. Nothing is as it used to be. There is something missing in everything I do - and its YOU. We ALL miss you love you and wish you were here with us. I can still hear the sound of your voice and your laughter--which is comforting. Rest well, Mom.
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
West Jordan, Utah


May 25, 2009
Memorial Day was a day I could put a smile on your face. I would email you photos of the flowers and it always made you so happy. Last year, I didn't do that. I missed my last chance put a smile on your face. We were busy the fact that you were going to be "cured" after your surgery happening in the next few days. You knew better than us, what the outcome would be. I just wish I had the time back to give you more smiles. At this time, Mom--we need you to help us smile. We love you and miss you so much.
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
West Jordan, Utah


May 13, 2009
Mother's Day has come and gone. And now, I feel I can finally say HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY, Mom! You are deeply missed by all of us. Time hasn't eased the pain of losing you so quickly and in such a cruel way.
I know it felt wonderful to you to see your own Mom on Mother's Day--your love for her is great. Much like the love I have for you. We so wish you were still here with us, though. I love you and miss you, Mom.
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
West Jordan, Utah


May 13, 2009
Grandma we miss you so much. Please help us all to be strong as we approach the day that we have been without you for a year. It has been a rough year and I still can't believe that you are gone. What I wouldn't give to see you by grandpa's side holding his hand, or laughing at a scrapbook table with my mom. I love you Grandma.

"When someone you love becomes a memory...that memory becomes a treasure."
Stacey Jackson


May 06, 2009
It is almost Mother's Day and I can't stand to think of it without you. I know last year we were not much in the mood for it. Now I sure wished we would have done something special. You were sick. I thought that you were going to just get better though. I am sorry that it was the last mothers day we would spend together in this lifetime. I am going to buy you some really pretty flowers though and put them by you. I miss you mom and hope that you have a great Mother's Day.
~
Janet Benjamimn,
Ephraim, Utah


April 18, 2009
I miss you so much lately, Mom. We should be planning our summer trips to the cabin and fishing and our yearly vacation to Bryce. I can only hope you are having as much fun with Grandma as I always did with you. You are special, Mom. I love you with all my heart.


March 20, 2009
The first day of Spring is almost as pretty as you, Mom. How we all wish you was here to share it with us. I love you and miss you so much. Thanks for being my Guardian Angel while I've been sick.
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
West Jordan, Utah


January 21, 2009
Mom, I missed you so much today. It would have, could have, SHOULD have been so fun to share Inauguration Day with you. So many ways in all of my days, I realize more and more how much you were part of my life. I miss you so much and I love you even more. REST WELL, Mom.
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
West Jordan, Utah


January 01, 2009
"Coping with loss of a parent means taking no chances with the one you have left."
I was reading an article and came across this passage. Let's band together and do all we can for Dad--for Grandpa--as Mom would want us to. He tries so hard to make everyone happy and in return there isn't much left for him. My New Year's Resolution will be one for my Mom. I WILL DO MY BEST TO MAKE SURE DAD IS WELL AND AS HAPPY AS HE CAN BE WITHOUT HER.
We wanted so much for this year to just GO AWAY! But to me it seems the passing of this most horrible year ever, is only taking Mom further away and not really helping at all. We all miss her love, her laughter, her kindesses and fun, sweet presence. She is the best Mom ever---and I will do my best for the best Dad ever!
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
West Jordan, Utah


December 24, 2008
MOTHER,
YOU FILL MY DAYS WITH RAINBOW LIGHTS,
FAIRYTALE AND SWEET DREAM NIGHTS.
A KISS TO WIPE AWAY MY TEARS,
GINGERBREAD TO EASE MY FEARS,
YOU GAVE THE GIFT OF LIFE TO ME,
AND THEN IN LOVE YOU SET ME FREE,
I THANK YOU FOR YOUR TENDER CARE,
FOR DEEP WARM HUGS AND BEING THERE,
I HOPE THAT WHEN YOU THINK OF ME,
A PART OF YOU, YOU'LL SEE IN ME.

Mom, its Christmas Eve. We sisters and Mike are here together with Dad for Christmas morning. We all miss you so much. Nothing is as good as it used to be without you. We do take comfort that you are celebrating Christmas with Sharon, Larry JR, and your Mom and Dad and Grandpa and Grandma Nunley. But what we wouldn't give to have you here with us. We love you, Mom. Have a Merry Christmas this year. We are doing our best for you!
Dad says to be sure to tell you "MERRY CHRISTMAS, CUPCAKE"
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
West Jordan, Utah


November 30, 2008
Grandma,

I missed you so much on Thanksgiving. Having the family together wouldn't have been the same without you, it would have been too hard. The last two years we were all together and I am so thankful for that. As Christmas draws near, I am also thankful that I learned from you and Grandpa what the true meaning of Christmas is. It's not about presents but it is all about presence. Having you and Grandpa at our parties always made my Christmas special. I know you are still with all of us even though we can't see you. I love you and we all miss you so much.
~
Stacey Jackson,
WVC, Utah


November 27, 2008
As Thanksgiving Day is drawing to an end, I am thinking about what I am thankful for. This year, its hard to not have Mom with us for Thanksgiving. She always made the party---a real party. I am thankful for Dad...for my sisters who are there to see him every day. I'm thankful for my husband, daughters, Scott, Sam, Michael and Chris and all the grandkids. But right now---most of all---I am thankful for my Mom. I am so blessed to be her daughter. She is so loved and so missed by all of us. She is always in our hearts every day. WE LOVE YOU, MOM and are sad you aren't with us right now. BUT WE ARE THANKFUL WE WILL SEE YOU AGAIN.
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
West Jordan, Utah


November 22, 2008
Mom, I'm sure my Malley has found you by now. It hurt so much to lose him---but the fact he can be with you and he has his eyesight again is so comforting. I miss you both so much. Give him a kiss, Mom, and he will do anything for you. He's a good boy. I love you and miss you terribly.
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
West Jordan, Utah


October 31, 2008
Mom, another month has slipped away without you. I miss you and love you with all my heart. So far, "time" has not helped, perhaps it hasn't been long enough. The Autumn has been wonderful here, as you know. I wish you were here so we could talk about it. I love you, Mom. Give hugs and kisses for us to all those who we, on Earth, are missing. I hope you have met up with my dear friend, Patrick. He will help Sharon and Larry, Jr. take care of you for us. We all love and miss you!
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
West Jordan, Utah



October 23, 2008
John Lennon said "Life is what happens while you are busy making other plans". Mom and I were always making plans. Being together as a family and HAVING FUN was always a high priority for Mom and I. We did have some grand plans going on--that is until "life" happened. Mom, I miss our planning of those wonderful, fun times. I miss you so much in every way. One day, we will get back to our plan-making. Until that time--please meet me in my dreams. WE ALL LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO MUCH!
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
West Jordan, Utah


October 10, 2008
We little knew that morning that
God was going to call your name,
In life we loved you dearly,
In death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you,
You did not go alone,
For part of us went with you,
The day God called you home.
You left us peaceful memories,
Your love is still our guide,
And though we cannot see you,
You are always at our side.
Our family chain is broken,
And nothing seems the same,
But as God calls us one by one,
The chain will link again.

Grandma-
We miss you so very much. We enjoyed being together to celebrate your birthday but it was also very painful to not have you to hug and kiss and laugh with. I love you very much!
~
Kim Avalos,
Midvale, Utah





September 28, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven, here I dwell with God above.
Here, there are no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things that he wished for me to do,
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years,
Because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you just wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
~
Stacey Jackson,
West Valley, Utah


September 28, 2008
I though of you with love today, but that is nothing new.
I thought about you yesterday, and days before that too.
I thought of you in silence, I often speak your name.
All I have are memories and your picture in a frame.
Your memory is my keepsake with which I’ll never part.
God has you in His keeping, I have you in my heart.

I love you Grandma and we all miss you terribly!!
~
Stacey Jackson,
West Valley, Utah


September 22, 2008
Today I was looking for pictures on my computer and came across the file of our last vacation with Mom. Today is the first anniversay of the last day of that vacation. How did we get here from there in only one year? From fishing and ATV'ing and staying up all night playing cards...to being without Mom? I will never forget and always cherish how Mom and I could get to laughing so hard one of us would end up wetting our pants! She was such a fun, sweet mother. I envy my brother and sister who are with her now. Kiss her for us, Larry and Sharon. We miss her so!
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
West Jordan, Utah


September 09, 2008
Well, here we into another month without our beloved Wife, Mom and Grandma. It still is so unreal to me, and I feel so empty and lost without her. A few more very small "firsts" of life without MOM. Dad is learning to bake bread! I'm very proud of him for that! I am bottling fruit, which I can still share with Dad--but not Mom this year. Last night Alan Jackson was singing on TV.....I wanted to call her so badly and let her know he was on. These little things are just a reminder of how important she is to all of us all through the day. Mom, I miss you more every day. I am so blessed to have such a wonderful Mom and friend. I LOVE YOU!
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
West Jordan, Utah


August 26, 2008
If roses grow in Heaven, Lord pick a bunch for me, Place them in my Mother's arms and tell her they're from me. Tell her I love her and miss her, and when she turns to smile, Place a kiss upon her cheek, and hold her for a while. Because remembering her is easy, I do it every day, But there's an ache within my heart that will never go away.
I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU, MOM
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
West Jordan, Utah


August 25, 2008
Grandma,

We all miss you so much and I am so sad that you are not here with us. It's a sadness I have never experienced before and never could have prepared for, nor wanted to. It is times like this that we realize everyone in our lives have their own place in our hearts-some just take up more room than others. Every time I visit this guest book I hope that it will not appear on my screen, that somehow it's not true. My heart still can't accept it. I keep hoping it's a story someone told me about their Grandma-just so the story isn't about mine. I know that is selfish but that's how I honestly feel. I am so going to miss our get-togethers, scrapbooking together and all the laughter you and Grandpa brought with you each time you came for a visit. Most of all I am going to miss seeing you by his side. Your love for each other is one of a kind. Thank you for making so many trips to spend time with all of us. Those memories and photos will be kept close to my heart forever. I love you and Grandpa so much!

Stacey
~
Stacey Jackson,
WVC, Utah


August 25, 2008
To my Family and Friends,
We made it through the first month without her. It wasn't a good one, either. So many things I feel are still left undone. Mom had so much life in her before this illness. Mike and I went on vacation to the cabin for the first time in years without Mom and Dad. It wasn't that much of a vacation without their company. Our brand new scrapbook table Mike got us for up there sits unused and its very sad to see. Dad, Janet, Kim, Stacey, Jenny and Lorraine I'm glad we all have each other to lean on and talk to. Without family right now--where would we be? MOM, I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO MUCH!!! I hope keeping this guest book online for year will help us all get through this very hard time.
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
West Jordan, Utah


August 25, 2008
To my Family and Friends,
We made it through the first month without her. It wasn't a good one, either. So many things I feel are still left undone. Mom had so much life in her before this illness. Mike and I went on vacation to the cabin for the first time in years without Mom and Dad. It wasn't that much of a vacation without their company. Our brand new scrapbook table Mike got us for up there sits unused and its very sad to see. Dad, Janet, Kim, Stacey, Jenny and Lorraine I'm glad we all have each other to lean on and talk to. Without family right now--where would we be? MOM, I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO MUCH!!! I hope keeping this guest book online for year will help us all get through this very hard time.
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
West Jordan, Utah


August 17, 2008
Mom,

I hoped that by now we would better understand why you had to leave but that just hasn't happened. It still seems so unreal and our lives will never be the same without you. I miss you more and more everyday.
I LOVE YOU!
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
West Jordan, Utah


August 05, 2008
Jeanine & Stacey,

I was so sorry to hear about your mother and grandmother. I know what a hard time it is and want you to know my prayers are with you and your family.
What a blessing to have had such a wonderful and loving relationship. I know when I loss my mother and dad it was devestating and even after 4 years I still feel the loss, but oh, the memories are beautiful!
Thank goodness you know that you that there is a plan and that she is free of pain and sorrow. I know she will still be watching over all of you and that you will all be together again.

My love and sympathy,
Diane Bonino


July 31, 2008
I WAS JUST THINKING OF GRANDMA AND HOW MUCH I WILL MISS HER. IT IS HARD TO BELIEVE SHE IS REALLY GONE! I AM SAYING A LITTLE PRAYER THAT ALL OF US THAT MISS HER SO MUCH WILL BE COMFORTED AND BE BLESSED WITH A LITTLE WHISPER SOMEHOW, SOMEWAY THAT SHE IS WITH US AT ALL TIMES. I KNOW MY MOM IS HAPPY TO HAVE GRANDMA WITH HER AND LARRY JR. I AM SURE GRANDMA IS HAPPY TO BE WITH HER CHILDREN, HER PARENTS, AND HER BROTHER AND SISTERS. I NOW UNDERSTAND WHY WE HAD TO GO THROUGH THE BRIEF BATTLE OF WATCHING YOU SUFFER-BUT YOU WERE SO BRAVE! THANK YOU FOR THE BLESSING ,EVEN IN YOUR TIME OF NEED, TO HELP US, YOUR FAMILY, IN UNDERSTANDING AND ACCEPTING WHY IT WAS YOUR TIME TO GO. I WAS SO GLAD TO BE THERE ON THAT NIGHT TO SAY GOODBYE. THANK YOU FOR THAT SPECIAL BLESSING. I LOVE YOU GRANDMA!

I LOVE YOU TOO GRANDPA- THANK YOU FOR YOUR STRENGTH AND TEACHING ME ABOUT TRUE LOVE. YOU ARE SUCH A GREAT MAN.
REMEMBER I AM ALWAY HERE FOR YOU. LOVE YOU- JENNY
~
JENNIFER VAN STAVEREN,
WEST JORDAN, Utah


July 30, 2008
Larry:
In remembrance of Lenis; who was a very special friend and neighbor. I shall always remember the times spent together with good conversation; good food and especially playing card games. May the love of many who care for you and your family be a comfort now and forever. Arlene
~
Arlene Jacobsen,
Denver, Colorado


July 29, 2008
To Janet and family, I only know your mother from your sweet words of her. Thanks so much for letting me have the chance to say I am so sorry. My mother is such comfort to me, that I could never imagine your pain. You are welcome to come to Clevelad anytime. We will go over to Canada and see the FALLS again. Miss you always, and best of luck to you.
~
Lisa Vanderhyde,
Cleveland, Ohio


July 29, 2008
Dearest Jeannie!

So sorry to hear of your loss! Although your mother is finally at peace, take the time you need (however long that is), to properly grieve and then remember the "good times"!

Your eBay friend,
~
Carmen Kapcala,
Rockalnd, Ontario


July 28, 2008
Jeannie,
While I never had the pleasure of meeting your Mom, I treasure the memories I have of you and your two wonderful daughters, one of whom I was honored to have for a daughter-in-law.
My heart is breaking for all of you, especially your sweet Dad. How you all must miss her!
We've said a special prayer and made a request that our Aunt Erika be there to greet your Mom and "show her the ropes". Just think what a good time they'll have discussing Austin!
We love you lots. Let us know if there is anything we can do to help.
Linda, Lisa and June
~
Linda,
Taylorsville, Utah


July 28, 2008
Jeannie and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all in this very difficult time. Always know, your Mom isn't far away. She will remain forever in your hearts. May God bless and comfort you all.
~
Sue Walker,
Chisholm, Minnesota


July 28, 2008
It is an odd feeling...I feel like my heart is actually ripping when I think about you, and your Dad...and the family. But then...I feel like my heart is bubbling like a soda pop when I think about Mom! I see her happy and running, twirling a pretty translucent shawl around...and smiling so wide, all her lovely white teeth are showing! I try to picture a frail, sick woman, and it won't come to me! I see strong, happy, and a relieved soul. Does that make sense? I tried to write in your guest book, but it doesn't go through...sob sob! Here is a summary of my thoughts: (Oh oh...says Jeannie)


When I realized Mom had left, I felt a sudden calmness, and an unusual happiness that I rarely feel. This happiness comes from deep within...a place that I don't feel unless I am around a person that has died. I long to follow them! I realised that at this very moment...Mom knows all the secrets God could never reveal to us while we are mere humans. She knows even the tiny, stupid things...like if the Loch Ness Monster REALLY is there...or if there was a 2nd shooter on the grassy knoll. Everything has been revealed to her! She has bowed in the presence of Our Lord, and thrown her crown at His feet, in Adoration...and that is when my insides want to explode with happiness!

And then I remember you and Dad, and it is so painful. I wish I could send you the bubbling feeling, to keep with you and use when you need it!

I still have my Mom, so I do not know what you feel like, and won't pretend to. I wish I could carry some of your burden! I am right here if you ever want to email...I promise! Hugs your way...thanks again for letting me know! All my love... Elizabeth
~
Elizabeth Mills,
McRae, Arkansas


July 27, 2008
I'm so sorry to hear about your mom. It must be difficult to see someone you love so much move on. I wish you and your family peace and comfort. Please know you will be in our thoughts and prayers.
~
Monica McQueen,
Salt Lake City, Utah


July 27, 2008
Jeanie,sorry to hear about your mom, I am sure she was a great person just like you.Are thoughts are with you and your family.Terry and Julie Rasmussen


July 26, 2008
Mom, I just submitted a photo of you and Dad on our last camping trip together. You made all our trips so much fun. You made the scenery that much better. I will miss you in so many ways. I am so thankful to be your daughter. I LOVE YOU!
~
Jeannie Rasmussen,
West Jordan, Utah


July 26, 2008
Jeannie,

So sorry to hear about a
loss of someone so dear to
your heart. Thanks for
letting me know. Please
know and feel that our
prayers are with everyone.
God bless you.
~
Darlene Townsend,
Powder Springs, Georgia


July 25, 2008
Jeannie and Family,

I am deeply sorry to hear about your mother. I know how much you care about her and she will be missed by all who knew her. The comforting thought is that her spirit will remain with all who have an open heart to receive it. I am so sorry I did not know earlier and please know that we are here for you when you need us.
~
Mindi Hennefer,
Sandy, Utah


July 25, 2008
To our dear friends; Linda and Bob are very supportive of you loss and wish we could do something to ease the pain, of all the things that hurt the most here on earth is the parting of a loved one. Keep the memory alive. . .peace be with you.
~
Bob Prichard,
Taylorsville, Utah


July 25, 2008
Jeannie & Family

I'm so sorry for the pain you must be feeling loosing such a precious member of your family. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
~
Becky Crawford,
Fremont, Michigan


July 25, 2008
Jeannie, Mr. Nunley and Family
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your wonderful mother and wife. Jeannie, I know it is a difficult time for you and your family right now after such a trying time but remember all of the good memories as they are something you will always have. Jeannie, please remember that I am always here for you and you can drop me an email and I will phone you when you need a shoulder to cry on. It is difficult not to feel bad that you have lost your dear mother and I know she was one of your best friends but be relieved that she no longer has any pain and her suffering is through. Your Dad will need you now more than ever so I will keep praying for strength for him and you so that you can get through this very tough time as you try to go on with such an empty void in your hearts.
As always my thoughts and prayers are with you and Jeannie, remember, I love you like a sister.
~
Linda Laye,
Tees, Alberta


July 25, 2008
Although i never met her, i know how sadly she will be missed, by her loving family, especially my dear friend jeannie, who loved her mom , and wanted so much for her to stay, my thoughts are with you, and your family, your friend from australia brenda
~
brenda goddard,
australia


July 25, 2008
My heart goes out to you as you face the unbelievable part of life. I am very sorry for your loss. You will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. Blessed be.
~
Tanya Peek,
Tullahoma, Tennessee


July 25, 2008
Jeannie & family, My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. I've only know you a short time Jeannie, but I did know how much your Mom meant to you in the few months we have known each other. I'm so very sorry that you are having to go through this, but time will help, and you have a world of great memories to help you through.
~
Darlene Hackler,
Millers Creek, North Carolina


July 25, 2008
So sorry for your loss...my prayers are with your family
~
Keysha Costley,
Baltimore, Maryland


July 25, 2008
Jeannie and family

I am so sorry that your mom has passed from this earth, but she will be remembered and loved for all time.
~
Fran Welker,
Irvine, California


July 24, 2008
Grandma Jeanie and Grandpa Larry,

Im sorry about grandma, she was an amazing person and its horrible we had to lose her. We all love her so much!!!!! i hope all you guys are ok and make it through this ok
love you guys
~
Jake Reed,
west valley, Utah


July 24, 2008
Stacey and family,

I just wanted to say that I am sorry to hear about your grandma, god bless you and your family. If you need anything at all let me know. Andrea


July 24, 2008
Stacey,
You are a special grand-
daughter and I pray that the
Holy Spirit will walk ahead
of you and give you peace.
It's great knowing you are
loved.

Mary Ramsey


July 24, 2008
Stacey,
I am sorry for the loss
of your grandma. You are a
fabulous, strong woman that
will take all that was ever
learned from her and make
sure you teach your children
like she did.
Edma
~
Edma Garcia,
West Valley, Utah


July 23, 2008
Dear Janet and family,
I am so sorry to hear about your Mom. I remember her as such a kind and loving person. Please accept my sincere sympathy at this difficult time. With love, Suzann Biggs Jones
~
Suzann Jones,
Salt Lake City, Utah


July 23, 2008
Kim & Family

My prayers are with you all.
Kim talked so greatly about her grandmother, I'm truly sorry for your loss.
Kim, I wish I was there to hug you, but you know you are in my prayers, always.

Renee'
~
Roselle, Illinois


July 23, 2008
Jeannie, Stacey and Family, and Kim and Family:

My heart goes out to each one of you at this time in your life. I know by all the kind words that you have shared with me, that your mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother was a wonderful person. I am very impressed by all of you for how much time you spent with your grandma over the last few weeks. Even though it was really hard at times, you stuck by her side as well as your grandpa's, and I am sure your grandma and grandpa are very appreciative of your love and support. Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you at this time.
~
Denza Raiford & Family,
West Jordan, Utah


July 23, 2008
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
~
Jeff and Julie Ayers,
Draper, Utah


July 22, 2008
What a tribute. She sounds like a wonderful woman.
My condolances.
~
Jan Rytting,
Murray, Utah


July 22, 2008
I feel I am special to have met you before you left us and went to heaven. I loved your candy too. Joseph Walthall
~


July 22, 2008
Grandma-
Words cannot express the sadness in our hearts. For several weeks now we have missed your laughter and the sound of your voice. We kept telling each other every day that "this is going to be a good day". We take comfort in knowing that EVERY DAY will be a good day for you from now on. Better than any of us could ever imagine. Kiss Aunt Sharon for me!
Grandpa-
You are so special to us and we are so sorry that you have lost your cupcake, your best friend. Just remember that you are not alone and we will always be here for you. You and Grandma are the best grandparents anyone could ask for and you mean the world to all of us.
We love you both with all of our hearts.
Love, Kimberly
~
Kimberly Avalos,
Midvale, Utah


July 22, 2008
God Bless you all, I am sure Grandma
Lenis is with you in Spirit always.
She was a sweet, lovely lady and I
know she will be missed.
Larry,Jeannie, Jenny, Robert and all of your family I am here if you need me.
I love you all, Grandma Betty
~
Betty Kurtz,
Virgin, Utah



July 22, 2008
Great Grandpa-

I know this is a hard time but always remember I love you and you can make it through. Give my Grandma a hug for me.

Love, Ryan



Grandma Jeannie-

I am so sorry about great grandma. I love you so much. You are the best grandma anyone can have.

Love, Taylor
~
Taylor Jackson,
West Valley, Utah

July 22, 2008
Grandma-
I want to tell you from the bottom of my heart... I love you!! You have truely been the best Grandma to all of us. You always made each one of us feel so special. Your many cards and notes you have given me over the years will be held close to my heart for the rest of my life. I am going to miss you more than I can say but I am so glad that you are now at peace. We will take very good care of Grandpa. You both mean the world to us. I know you are finally holding that sweet baby close to you and having lots of fun with Aunt Sharon. That is what keeps us all going. I love you Grandma!!

Grandpa-
You are an amazing person. Your strength and the way you took care of Grandma through the last couple of months has been so touching. Thank you for teaching all of us the true meaning of love. I hope that we all find the same kind of love you and Grandma have.

Mom, Aunt Lorraine and Aunt Janet-
Hold each other close through this very hard time. I am so sorry that you are going through this. I wish there was a way I could take away some of your pain. I know with each others help you and Grandpa will make it through. You are all so lucky to have had such wonderful parents.

To all my cousins-
Wow! are we lucky or what? We have all been blessed with the most amazing grandparents ever. I am so glad we all are so close and have shared so many fun times together. We will all get through this...together.

Love, Stacey
~
Stacey Jackson,
West Valley City, Utah


July 21, 2008
MOM, To this day I still keep on thinking I am going to wake up and see your pretty face. I miss you so much!! It's so hard knowing your gone. Watch over us untill we see each other again!! your daughter, Janet
~
Janet Nunley Benjamin,
Ephraim, Utah


July 21, 2008
Jeannie and Family
So sorry to hear about your mom.I did not know her but from everything you told me she must have been a pretty great person. It is always sad to loose a love one and hard to deal with for the living . She will have to suffer no more, she is at peace now and that is something to be thankfull for even in your time of sadness. My thoughts are with your whole family. take care.
Judy Hoff
~
Judy Hoff,
Middleville, Michigan


July 21, 2008
Jeannie & Family,

My deepest sympathy goes to you in the loss of your mom. Please know that we are all thinking about you and sorrowing with you. I didn't know her well, but from all I hear and see (in you), she is a great person and will be sorely missed. Please know that she is happy and watching over you from above. Love YOU!!!!
~
Karen Marshall,
Orem, Utah


July 21, 2008
To Larry
and my dearest forever Sister-Jeannie,

My heart goes out to you both and the rest of the family.
I had the wonderful pleasure of knowing Lenis, for quite some time now.
Seeing her at Christmas gatherings and through tons of emails.
That’s what she became to me, my email buddy.
And with every email, I knew just how much her family meant to her.
She loved each and everyone of you with the utmost respect and love.
She will be truly treasured and missed.
Thank you for allowing me to share (Mom).
I Love You!
~
Shauna Rasmussen-Quiroz,
Beaver Dam, Arizona



July 21, 2008
Dear Sis,
I am so sorry to hear about MOM! I never met her, but in the many years I have known her thru emails, she got to be like a MOM to me. I had to cancel my trip to Utah in June to see you & MOM, because she was real sick & your time needed to be with her. Sis, I was crushed to hear this news. Please know you are in my thoughts & prayers & please tell Dad I am thinking about him, I know how much he loved her. Sis, I LOVE YOU & will be thinking about you, I know how close you & MOM were.

Love You, Always!!
~
Gayle Lineberry,
Salem, Virginia


July 21, 2008
Dear Kimmy,
We are so sorry for your family's loss. We know how much you love your Grandma and we've enjoyed hearing stories about her. We are so glad that you've had the opportunity to spend extra time with your family in the recent weeks. We know she was a special person in your life but she was also lucky to have such a wonderful granddaughter. We love you Kimmy and wish the best for you and your family, especially during this time.
~
Cheryl Allen and Wendy Olson,
SLC, Utah


July 21, 2008
Dear Sis,
I am so very sorry to hear about your Mom. Be assured that prayers will continue for you and your family.
Although I did not know your Mom, I know that she was a very special MOM. Thinking of you. Sis Pris
~
Priscilla Lund,
Biddeford, Maine

July 20, 2008
Dear Larry & family,
We were sadden to get your phone call about Lenis' passing. Over the years our contact with the two of you meant so much to us. Seeing you at Bryce Canyon was a real treat, family reunions, and Jeanine's home. We loved Lenis' sweet smile and was always so happy to see us and visit. Our last visit with her was at the hospital and we are so glad we got to do that. Larry we love you and our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family at this time and always.
~
Jim & Mary Nunley,
Midvale, Utah



July 20, 2008
Aunt Lenis, you will be greatly missed! Love Tiffany
~
Tiffany Whicker,
Salt Lake City, Utah


July 20, 2008
We are sorry we missed some very very important people in printing this obituary. We are reprining the obituary tomorrow. please forgive us uncle Vern and Grandpa. We miss you grandma, but we know you are happy. We love you.
~
jennifer van staveren,
west jordan, Utah


Grandma, You will be missed by many and forgotten by none. You managed to to find a unique way to touch all of our hearts.
~
Scott Smith,
WVC, Utah